PHIL 3160 – Philosophy of Happiness

What is it, how can we best pursue it, why should we? Supporting the study of these and related questions at Middle Tennessee State University and beyond. "Examining the concept of human happiness and its application in everyday living as discussed since antiquity by philosophers, psychologists, writers, spiritual leaders, and contributors to pop culture."

Wednesday, September 1, 2021

Questions Sep 2

 Haybron 5-6-The Sources of Happiness; Beyond Happiness: Well-being

[Again, I particularly appreciate comments (etc.) posted prior to class day... and please sign your posts. Also: if Thursday's weather is as mild as Wednesday's, we can go outside... if enough of us wish to do so. Comfortable shoes will then be advised.]


1. According to Haybron, is it credible to claim that genetics render some people incapable of being happier?

2. What do studies show about consumerist materialism and intrinsic motivation?

3. At what $ level do happiness and income "cease to show a pretty substantial link"?

4. What does an Aristotelian nature-fulfillment theory of happiness find objectionable about the experience machine scenario?

5. What do Desire theories have trouble explaining?

6. How might a philosophical theory of well-being settle the strivers vs. enjoyers debate?

Discussion Questions:
  • Buddhists say desire and attachment are our great source of unhappiness. William James (see below $) says they're "imperative" and deserve to be fulfilled to the extent they can be, without shortchanging other worthy desires. What do you say?
  • Aristotle said living well consists in doing something, over a lifetime, that actualizes the virtues of the rational part of the soul. Agree? What kinds of things do you think you must do, to be happy?
  • Do you consider yourself genetically advantaged or disadvantaged, in the happiness sweepstakes?
  • Is there anything on your Source List that Haybron omits to mention?
  • Do you identify with the Epicureans, Stoics, or Buddhists in their emphasis on simplicity as prerequisite to happiness? 56 What aspects of your life have you simplified? What would you simplify if you could (but you can't)?
  • Was your childhood "coddled" and "risk-free"? 58 How risk-averse are you now?
  • Is happiness a choice, or isn't it? 59 If it's a "skill," how have you chosen to cultivate it? Can you fly as (relatively) imperturbably as Haybron? 61
  • Can those of us who refuse to "accept things as they are" be as happy as those who do? 61
  • Have you experienced great joy from volunteer & charity work?
  • Do you ever feel chastened by the thought that, though you know you should be happy, you still bicker about petty things? 64
  • Do you worry about becoming a "wage slave"? Since many of us must work for wages, how can you avoid that fate? 
  • How much of western unhappiness is a reflection of "option freedom"?  65-6
  • How important to your happiness is "being in charge of your daily routines"? 67
  • Do you have any use at all for an experience machine? 78
  • Can you defend watching television and playing video games in a basement as other than rank pleasure-seeking fit only for dumb grazing animals? 80
  • Can a Genghis Khan or a Hitler flourish and be happy? Why not? 85
  • What do you think of Haybron's remarks on the treatment of animals? 89-90
  • What do you think of the School of Life's "problem with our phones" and Franklin Foer's "existential threat"? (See # below)
  • Post yours
Happiness wisdom from cousin Mary...

Oliver said: “I’ve always wanted to write poems and nothing else. There were times over the years when life was not easy, but if you’re working a few hours a day and you’ve got a good book to read, and you can go outside to the beach and dig for clams, you’re okay.”
http://writersalmanac.org/

...and from Calvin & Hobbes

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 Cypher's choice in The Matrix
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Aristotle & eudaimonia

The principal idea with which Aristotle begins is that there are differences of opinion about what is best for human beings, and that to profit from ethical inquiry we must resolve this disagreement. He insists that ethics is not a theoretical discipline: we are asking what the good for human beings is not simply because we want to have knowledge, but because we will be better able to achieve our good if we develop a fuller understanding of what it is to flourish. In raising this question—what is the good?—Aristotle is not looking for a list of items that are good. He assumes that such a list can be compiled rather easily; most would agree, for example, that it is good to have friends, to experience pleasure, to be healthy, to be honored, and to have such virtues as courage at least to some degree. The difficult and controversial question arises when we ask whether certain of these goods are more desirable than others. Aristotle's search for the good is a search for the highest good, and he assumes that the highest good, whatever it turns out to be, has three characteristics: it is desirable for itself, it is not desirable for the sake of some other good, and all other goods are desirable for its sake.
Aristotle thinks everyone will agree that the terms “eudaimonia” (“happiness”) and “eu zên” (“living well”) designate such an end. The Greek term “eudaimon” is composed of two parts: “eu” means “well” and “daimon” means “divinity” or “spirit.” To be eudaimon is therefore to be living in a way that is well-favored by a god. But Aristotle never calls attention to this etymology in his ethical writings, and it seems to have little influence on his thinking. He regards “eudaimon” as a mere substitute for eu zên (“living well”). These terms play an evaluative role, and are not simply descriptions of someone's state of mind.

No one tries to live well for the sake of some further goal; rather, being eudaimon is the highest end, and all subordinate goals—health, wealth, and other such resources—are sought because they promote well-being, not because they are what well-being consists in. But unless we can determine which good or goods happiness consists in, it is of little use to acknowledge that it is the highest end. To resolve this issue, Aristotle asks what the ergon (“function,” “task,” “work”) of a human being is, and argues that it consists in activity of the rational part of the soul in accordance with virtue (1097b22–1098a20). One important component of this argument is expressed in terms of distinctions he makes in his psychological and biological works. The soul is analyzed into a connected series of capacities: the nutritive soul is responsible for growth and reproduction, the locomotive soul for motion, the perceptive soul for perception, and so on. The biological fact Aristotle makes use of is that human beings are the only species that has not only these lower capacities but a rational soul as well. The good of a human being must have something to do with being human; and what sets humanity off from other species, giving us the potential to live a better life, is our capacity to guide ourselves by using reason. If we use reason well, we live well as human beings; or, to be more precise, using reason well over the course of a full life is what happiness consists in. Doing anything well requires virtue or excellence, and therefore living well consists in activities caused by the rational soul in accordance with virtue or excellence.

Aristotle's conclusion about the nature of happiness is in a sense uniquely his own. No other writer or thinker had said precisely what he says about what it is to live well. But at the same time his view is not too distant from a common idea. As he himself points out, one traditional conception of happiness identifies it with virtue (1098b30–1). Aristotle's theory should be construed as a refinement of this position. He says, not that happiness is virtue, but that it is virtuous activity. Living well consists in doing something, not just being in a certain state or condition. It consists in those lifelong activities that actualize the virtues of the rational part of the soul.

At the same time, Aristotle makes it clear that in order to be happy one must possess others goods as well—such goods as friends, wealth, and power. And one's happiness is endangered if one is severely lacking in certain advantages—if, for example, one is extremely ugly, or has lost children or good friends through death (1099a31-b6). But why so? If one's ultimate end should simply be virtuous activity, then why should it make any difference to one's happiness whether one has or lacks these other types of good? Aristotle's reply is that one's virtuous activity will be to some extent diminished or defective, if one lacks an adequate supply of other goods (1153b17–19). Someone who is friendless, childless, powerless, weak, and ugly will simply not be able to find many opportunities for virtuous activity over a long period of time, and what little he can accomplish will not be of great merit. To some extent, then, living well requires good fortune; happenstance can rob even the most excellent human beings of happiness. Nonetheless, Aristotle insists, the highest good, virtuous activity, is not something that comes to us by chance. Although we must be fortunate enough to have parents and fellow citizens who help us become virtuous, we ourselves share much of the responsibility for acquiring and exercising the virtues... (continues at SEP)
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From THE STONE-
The Problem of ‘Living in the Present’

These days, many of us would rather not be living in the present, a time of persistent crisis, political uncertainty and fear. Not that the future looks better, shadowed by technological advances that threaten widespread unemployment and by the perils of catastrophic climate change. No wonder some are tempted by the comforts of a nostalgically imagined past.Inspiring as it seems on first inspection, the self-help slogan “live in the present” slips rapidly out of focus. What would living in the present mean? To live each day as if it were your last, without a thought for the future, is simply bad advice, a recipe for recklessness. The idea that one can make oneself invulnerable to what happens by detaching from everything but the present is an irresponsible delusion.

Despite this, there is an interpretation of living in the present, inspired by Aristotle, that can help us to confront the present crisis and the perpetual crises of struggle and failure in life. There is an insight in the self-help slogan that philosophy can redeem...

To live in the present is to appreciate the value of atelic activities like going for a walk, listening to music, spending time with family or friends. To engage in these activities is not to extinguish them from your life. Their value is not mortgaged to the future or consigned to the past, but realized here and now. It is to care about the process of what you are doing, not just projects you aim to complete... (continues... with some good comments)
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Robert Nozick, "The Experience Machine" - original text
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#The Problem With Our Phones - SoL


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#Franklin Foer, World Without Mind - How Tech Companies Pose an Existential Threat - npr
Journalist Franklin Foer worries that we're all losing our minds as big tech companies infiltrate every aspect of our lives.
In his new book, World Without Mind: The Existential Threat of Big Tech, Foer compares the way we feel about technology now to the way people felt about pre-made foods, like TV dinners, when they were first invented.
"And we thought that they were brilliant because they did away with pots and pans — we didn't have to go to the store to go shopping every day — and then we woke up 50 years later and realize that these products had been basically engineered to make us fat," Foer says. "And I worry that the same thing is happening now to the things that we ingest through our mind." (listen here)
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$ William James's version of "desire theory"

From "The Moral Philosopher and the Moral Life"- (Also take a look at his "On a Certain Blindness in Human Beings," making the point that we are habitually blind and insensitive to others' desires while inflating the importance of our own, and that we ought to be more mutually accommodating.)

Take any demand however slight, which any creature, however weak, may make. Ought it not, for its own sake, to be satisfied? If not, prove why not. The only possible kind of proof you could adduce would be the exhibition of another creature who should make a demand that ran the other way. The only possible reason there can be why any phenomenon ought to exist is that such a phenomenon actually is desired. Any desire is imperative to the extent of its amount; it makes itself valid by the fact that it exists at all. Some desires, truly enough, are small desires; they are put forward by insignificant persons, and we customarily make light of the obligations which they bring.  But the fact that such personal demands as these impose small obligations does not keep the largest obligations from being personal demands...
Were all other things, gods and men and starry heavens, blotted out from this universe, and were there left but one rock with two loving souls upon it, that rock would have as thoroughly moral a constitution as any possible world which the eternities and immensities could harbor. It would be a tragic constitution, because the rock's inhabitants would die. But while they lived, there would be real good thing and real bad things in the universe; there would be obligations, claims, and expectations; obediences, refusals, and disappointments; compunctions, and longings for harmony to come again, and inward peace of conscience when it was restored; there would, in short, be a moral life, whose active energy would have no limit but the intensity of interest in each other with which the hero and heroine might be endowed.
           We, on this terrestrial globe, so far as the visible facts go, are just like the inhabitants of such a rock. Whether a God exist, or whether no God exist, in yon blue heaven above us bent, we form at any rate an ethical republic here below. And the first reflection which this leads to is that ethics have as genuine and real a foothold in a universe where the highest consciousness is human, as in a universe where there is a God as well. "The religion of humanity" affords a basis for ethics as well as theism does. Whether the purely human system can gratify the philosopher's demand as well as the other is a different question, which we ourselves must answer ere we close...
Every end of desire that presents itself appears exclusive of some other end of desire. Shall a man drink and smoke, or keep his nerves in condition?‑-he cannot do both. Shall he follow his fancy for Amelia, or for Henrietta?‑-both cannot be the choice of his heart. Shall he have the dear old Republican party, or a spirit of unsophistication in public affairs?‑-he cannot have both, etc. So that the ethical philosopher's demand for the right scale of subordination in ideals is the fruit of an altogether practical need. Some part of the ideal must be butchered, and he needs to know which part. It is a tragic situation, and no mere speculative conundrum, with which he has to deal...

28 comments:

  1. To find the perfect balance of fulfilling your desires and enjoying your worldly attachments while also maintaining a healthy level of restriction (referring to the CS Lewis quote we discussed in class, restricting ourselves from “over-indulging” and acting in an unruly and destructive nature) is, in my opinion, the true pursuit of happiness. It’s the essence of what rules our day to day lives as humans. We as people are naturally self-serving(in the sense of we instinctually are selfish and do things in order to meet our needs first), so I think the harder part of the equation would obviously be the latter, managing to restrict ourselves when necessary. I would say on a scale from Buddhist to William James, I fall somewhere in the middle-ground. I think as humans, are only purpose is to experience things, so I do think our desires deserve to be fulfilled, to an extent. It calls back to our “kid in the candy store” comparison, not everything that you desire, or even everything that makes you happy for that matter, is good for you or should be completely fulfilled. I would directly disagree with the Buddhist ideal that they are our greatest source of unhappiness, I would agree with Haybron in, stress and anxiety is the greatest source of our unhappiness.

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    1. Yeah full Buddhist detachment doesn't seem desirable, and it almost never seems actionable. Smiles, sunshine, good food, friends, family... there are so many good things that would be depressing detach from. Even though sunsets make me sad, I'm not going to wish the sun away.

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    2. Is Lewis's restraint a restriction? Those seem different concepts. The former might be a condition of happiness, the latter though would seem to be a limit.

      "only purpose is to experience things"--and, we pragmatists say, to apply the lessons of experience to precipitate future fulfillments. Experience detached from learning and growth seems pretty vacuous, in itself.

      I agree, in disagreeing with the Buddhist who finds desire per se objectionable. Satisfying some desires is exactly the remedy for stress and anxiety.

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    3. If sunsets bring you down, sunrises should raise you back up. Like Thoreau I feel bad for people who've "lost their subscription tickets to morning in this world."

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  2. I would say that my childhood was probably the exact opposite of coddled and risk-free. I grew up on a 63-acre cotton farm with about every farm animal and ATV you could imagine. I don’t remember a year prior to high school that I didn’t sprain, twist, or break something. My parents were very strict when it came to like going out curfews, or homework and grades, but I was never deprived of experiencing things. I think this Laissez-faire style of parenting allowed me to gather a good understanding of my risk scale so to speak, and what I was comfortable with. I think it made me a very “mellow” college student. I don’t really have any urge to take any crazy, outlandish risks. Not saying that I won’t do that from time to time, but I don’t typically have the urge like I hear some of my peers who were more coddled express. I think the overbearing behavior of my parents in high school led me to rebel slightly, (dying and cutting my hair, piercings, tattoos. The usual “screw you mom” lashing out) but never to the point that it made me go out of way to take risks.

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    1. It's super interesting how that works- in trying an 'outside-in' method of teaching discipline to kids, parents run the risk of building someone prone to running far away from those restraints given when given an ounce of freedom. That's why I was so afraid of dorming with freshmen lmao.

      My 'screw you Dad' phase meant swearing and taking two showers instead of just one (because that 'wasted the water' or something).

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    2. There's been a lot of attention lately to raising happy children. I think my generation missed out on that, and in some ways didn't know how lucky we were that our parents were relatively hands-off and preoccupied with their own lives and careers. Do successive generations tend to parent in ways directly counter to their own raisin'? I was a lot more aware of my potential to help or hinder our kids' development, spent a lot of time reading with them (for instance), and probably "helicoptering"...

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  3. [Do you consider yourself genetically advantaged or disadvantaged, in the happiness sweepstakes?]
    - In some senses both- I think I'm genetically predisposed to undergo great happiness-effect due to both the appraisal I have of my circumstances and on the circumstances themselves. Given amazing circumstances, and given that I think they're amazing, I have a very very deep capacity of happiness. It really depends on the life story that I tell myself and put myself in (the 'overall circumstance'), as well as whether reality more or less matches that story.

    [What aspects of your life have you simplified? What would you simplify if you could (but you can't)?]
    - Given a magic wand I would simplify bureaucracy. The UI for school, work, and government systems would be like those of videogames- intuitive.

    [Have you experienced great joy from volunteer & charity work?]
    - I don't do those things often enough to say, but in general if I'm convinced that I helped someone out it feels good. Not amazing, but good. It's the convincing myself that it ACTUALLY helped that's hard.

    [Do you ever feel chastened by the thought that, though you know you should be happy, you still bicker about petty things?]
    - This is by far one of my least favorite parts of human nature. I can live a full, vibrant, and wonderful day, but it's always still required of me to (mentally, spiritually) step aside and acknowledge deliberate gratitude. On the flip side, during a day where something small happens, like I don't see as many friends or something, I'm moody about it for so long.

    [Do you worry about becoming a "wage slave"? Since many of us must work for wages, how can you avoid that fate?]
    Read The Four Hour Work Week and The Millionaire Fastlane. The lessons include trying, failing, and trying again to produce VALUE to an in-demand market. After I get in the rat race and make enough money to start a business, that money is going straight into efforts to escape the rat race and acquire more and more assets. It's the FIRE movement bb.

    [How important to your happiness is "being in charge of your daily routines"?]
    To me, very important, because if I'm not in charge someone else is, and that person is usually kinda dumb, just as a general rule.

    [What do you think of the School of Life's "problem with our phones?"]
    - I definitely agree that phones have gone far beyond being a tool, and are (on a mass scale) just serving as an instrument towards entertaining a greater self-fear. Our egos are so large and so fragile that to confront them with presence would be to blow the house of cards over with a gentle breeze. Of course, it's not so so dire for every single person, but as a social trend it's for sure perpetuating a cyclical spiritual emptiness.

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    1. "It really depends on the life story that I tell myself"--
      So true. Narrating your own story as you go, in a way that emphasizes successes as well as failures, is a crucial condition of happiness.

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  4. I have been fortunate to do what I loved to do in my work as a Pastor and I continue to serve a church now in retirement. My becoming a Pastor was in response to feeling called to do so as a sixteen year old. I had no clear sense of where this call would lead me initially but I do recall very distinctly doing the things I loved to do, especially in college and seminary. Once I was serving as a Pastor, I recall often being amazed and appreciative of the great variety of things which I loved to do that were a part of my daily activities. I remember thinking how extraordinary it was that my job was in part to read and study as I prepared to teach and preach which were and are all things I love to do to this day. I have always advised my children and others to do what you love to do and then find a way to make a living doing those things in order to be happy with your life.

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    1. How did you maintain emotional equilibrium when dealing with pastoral care for the dying and the grieving? Seems like that would be a real challenge.

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    2. I recall feeling deeply as I walked with people near the time of death or who were grieving after a death. I was not unusual for me to be moved to tears while preaching a funeral. I always saw clearly what a privilege it was to be a Pastor at these times of transition. In some cases bonds were formed at these times that persist to this day. No other professional today has the access to the inner workings of a family the way a Pastor may be afforded at a time of death and dying.

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  5. Can those of us who refuse to "accept things as they are" be as happy as those who do? (p61, Haybron) I have found that accepting things as they are, being content with what you have, and rolling with the punches, are good strategies for being resilient as we cope with the ups and downs of life. Those who get "bent out of shape when things don't go" (p61, Haybron) their way seem to only increase their frustration and unhappiness with their life and often make those around them miserable. One thing I have learned as a pastoral counselor over the years is that despite appearances, everyone has many more problems than we imagine. The key is how we respond to the troubles and joys of life.

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    1. "I accept the universe" is reported to have been a favorite utterance of our New England transcendentalist, Margaret Fuller; and when some one repeated this phrase to Thomas Carlyle, his sardonic comment is said to have been: "Gad, she'd better!" https://forum.wordreference.com/threads/gad-shed-better.663510/

      But we pragmatic meliorists also accept our responsibility to try and change the unacceptable parts. Therein resides an alternate form of happiness to the stoic's. (Stoic Pragmatists try to integrate both attitudes.)

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  7. Have you experienced great joy from volunteer & charity work? I can say absolutely yes to this question. One of my greatest joys in ministry has been being able to be a member of mission teams going out to respond to natural disasters, working to help impoverished people, and offering disaster child care at FEMA and Red Cross assistance centers after disasters. Being able to work with a team, repairing things that people had little hope of ever seeing fixed, and offering comfort to traumatized people was exhausting at times but always fulfilling in that the mission was accomplished, lives were changed, and strong bonds developed between team members. I derived great joy and happiness and my life was greatly enriched by these experiences.

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  8. I believe that there is great wisdom in the assertion that happiness is dependent on action. It’s quite funny that this question was even asked because it was only last week that I gave this same answer to a question of how I survived the year long COVID lockdown. “Just stay busy,” I said.

    It may be counter-argued here that not everyone would prosper from getting off the couch and going to work on whatever task it may be. For instance, a person who is considered a workaholic may very well benefit from the exact opposite. I suppose that may be true, but a proponent of this assertion fails to realize that rest is needed to properly complete a task. In other words, a person only needs rest insofar as he or she will become more productive when they continue upon their duties.

    Additionally, not every task is suited for every person. “Just keep busy” is a gross understatement as it’s not simply action that upkeeps one’s spirits. Instead, the action must give the actor a sense of pride and self worth. The actor must truly enjoy that which he or she is doing and be aware of its beneficial nature to their self or their community. Or, maybe even on the flip side of the coin, simple hobbies whose only benefit is to give the mind rest will suffice as a source of happiness as well.

    As for what I do to remain happy? I’ve taken up the gym. It allots two hours to my day where my mind can rest and simply watch the body move. Moreover, the gym provides tangible results that allows myself to see the progress that I have made, fulfilling the need for productivity in one’s activities. I’ve become a far happier person, if not even a more disciplined one, since I’ve started.

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  9. Can Hitler be happy? What a question to answer this Thursday morning. On the surface level, many of us may want to quickly say that it is not possible. Perhaps, we wish not to admit that such a monster could posses something which we all seek ourselves. Maybe we just do not wish to think a person could be happy with genocidal policies. Let’s not be too hasty, though. Discussing such matters could be more important than we think.

    It’s especially important to define happiness outside of the scope of simply life satisfaction in this area. For, if we asked Hitler if he was satisfied with his life, he may say yes, only regretting that he had not waited to march on Russia. There’s the issue. We do not like to admit that there are such people in the world that derive pleasure from the pain and oppression of their fellow man, but Hitler is often a grave reminder.

    Now, while he may be satisfied with his life, could he be happy with it? That will probably be difficult to defend, considering he died in a bunker by his own gun as the Russians closed in. It would be an impossible task to ascribe happiness to an individual whose last moments were being terrified of the consequences of his life.

    Additionally, it would be easy to say that Hitler and his historical predecessors lived their entire lives in the fear that consumed Adolf in his final moments. For instance, Hitler alone had over 42 assassination plots against him during his life. While he was surrounded by worshippers, he could not take his mind off the hisses in the grass. Such a life would be pitiful in nearly all regards.

    So, perhaps these maniacal historical figures are the greatest example for where pleasure and satisfaction separate from happiness.

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    1. "So, perhaps these maniacal historical figures are the greatest example for where pleasure and satisfaction separate from happiness." Such a potent and thoughtful point!

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  10. For me being in charge of my daily routines is paramount to my happiness. If I don't follow them I just turn into a slave to whatever I'm feeling in the moment that much more often than not causes me to be unhappy in the long run. Routines generally also provide me with the space where I can relax enough to enter what I imagine is a flow state and really allow me to be able to focus on the things that do make me happy and fulfilled. While they also make me feel more at home in my life like Haybron talked about in ch. 2 when talking about atunement. -Tom Smith

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  11. I think for most people(although certainly not all) happiness is a skill that you have to habituate in yourself. Similar to social skills it seems to me that you have to understand basic principles of happiness like generosity or an openness to new experiences and from there you can grow in it and eventually become almost terminally happy until you can't stand it any longer. This is especially true when taking a stoic or Buddhist approach of moderating and overcoming certain desires, but I believe it's also the case for anyone who doesn't subscribe to those schools of thought. If you aren't creating good habits or actively working to make the most of your everyday experiences happiness might happen to you on occasion but only accidently and if happiness is a goal for you then you arent giving yourself a fighting chance to achieve it. - Tom Smith

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  12. I thought the anecdote regarding 11/12 of the people in the group Haybron describe in ch. 5 saying a childhood memory relating was very interested. I tried it myself and most of not all of my important childhood memories involved nature in one way or another, and im curious if my classmates have a similar experience or if I'm just uniquely lucky in that regard?
    -- Tom Smith

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  13. With more and more freedom, do people become less happy?

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  14. “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” - Mahatma Gandhi

    Do you believe that there is a need for consistency of thought in the formation of happiness? Are the instances where a person may be in contradiction with their self but still be happy?

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  15. I honestly have had the talk with my friends endless amounts of times about our worries of becoming “wage slaves”, or what we call “slaves to the system”. I was raised in a very lower middle-class family, the vast majority of that raising coming from a self-sufficient single mom. I mention this to say, worrying about money is something that has always been a part of my being. I can’t ever remember a time that I didn’t stress about money, even if the financial situation I was in surpassed stable. With this anxiety regarding money, came the overwhelming feeling like I need to work all the time. I worked three jobs in high school, I work two jobs now, and somehow it just doesn’t ever seem like I make enough money. I think that is exactly how it works though. The more money you make, the more money you spend, the more money you need. It’s a constant repeating cycle. It also doesn’t help that society has enforced this idea that if you don’t work or if you aren’t what other people deem as “productive”, then you aren’t as good as those who do or are. There is so much value based on how much you work. I feel that it is essentially impossible to avoid becoming a wage slave with the way our economy is progressing. I think it will be such a difficult process to dismantle the idea that how much you work is equivalent to how good of a member of society you are. As much as I would love to go completely off the grid and live off the land and throw away all of my dumb money, that just never seems like a viable option

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